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I’m a cis bi guy in my 40s who doesn’t have a lot of experience with other men. I’m happily married to a wonderful…

I’m a female in my late twenties. I broke up with a toxic ex about a year ago and I’ve been walking around (my…

I’m a 29-year-old straight male. I’ve been with my 25-year-old partner for six years. I love her and think that we…

I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years and we have a great relationship—or so I thought. Last week, I snooped on…

I want to thank everyone who attended our third Savage Love Livestream last Saturday night. Mistress Matisse was our…

A male friend—not my best friend but a close one—told me his wife was really attracted to me, another male, and…

I’m having a problem advising a friend. She’s been through a divorce and now the breaking off of an engagement. To…

I am at a loss. I am devastated. I just found out my husband has been sexting with another woman. As if that wasn’t…

I know you and other sexperts say that kinks are ingrained and not something you can get rid of, but mine have all…

I’m a gay guy living in New York in his late twenties. My boyfriend has really been emotionally impacted by the…

I’m positive you’ve written something about this in the past. I have searched your archives but have only managed to…

I’m a 30-year-old straight woman in a three-year relationship with my live-in partner, who is also 30. I love him…

Sex-positive bi woman here. I have recommended your column to many people over the years to help them feel normal…

I could really use your advice. I recently found my boyfriend’s HIV meds while I was house-sitting for him and went…

As you can see by my signature, Dan, I’m a linguist. On your podcast you frequently ask researchers “whatchyougot”…

We’re an adventurous, bisexual, non-monogamous, opposite-sex couple with a teenage kid living in Europe. We don’t…

One of my very close friends, a lesbian, has been married for a couple of years now. It’s been nothing but drama…

We hosted our second Savage Love Livestream last week and it was a blast. I ran my mouth as fast as I could but…

I’m wondering if you can help me with some dream interpretation. If it helps for context, I’m a single 29-year-old…

Something is bothering me and I don’t know where else to turn. I’m a bisexual man. I’ve been married to a great guy…