Savage Love2/24/21Feb 241Savage Love2/24/21Savage LoveThis week in Savage Love: De-kinkedDan Savage45I know you and other sexperts say that kinks are ingrained and not something you can get rid of, but mine have all…
Savage Love2/17/21Feb 17SaveSavage Love2/17/21Savage LoveThis week in Savage Love: Pandemic pressuresDan Savage67I’m a gay guy living in New York in his late twenties. My boyfriend has really been emotionally impacted by the…
Savage Love2/10/21Feb 102Savage Love2/10/21Savage LoveThis week in Savage Love: Toy boyDan Savage82I’m positive you’ve written something about this in the past. I have searched your archives but have only managed to…
Savage Love2/3/21Feb 31Savage Love2/3/21Savage LoveThis week in Savage Love: QuickiesDan Savage63 I’m a 30-year-old straight woman in a three-year relationship with my live-in partner, who is also 30. I love him…
Savage Love1/27/21Jan 271Savage Love1/27/21Savage LoveThis week in Savage Love: The boyfriend experienceDan Savage67Sex-positive bi woman here. I have recommended your column to many people over the years to help them feel normal…
Savage Love1/20/21Jan 201Savage Love1/20/21Savage LoveThis week in Savage Love: Case disclosedDan Savage90I could really use your advice. I recently found my boyfriend’s HIV meds while I was house-sitting for him and went…
Savage Love1/13/21Jan 13SaveSavage Love1/13/21Savage LoveThis week in Savage Love: Cum againDan Savage55As you can see by my signature, Dan, I’m a linguist. On your podcast you frequently ask researchers “whatchyougot”…
Savage Love1/6/21Jan 6SaveSavage Love1/6/21Savage LoveThis week in Savage Love: European adventuresDan Savage74We’re an adventurous, bisexual, non-monogamous, opposite-sex couple with a teenage kid living in Europe. We don’t…
Savage Love12/30/20Dec 303Savage Love12/30/20Savage LoveThis week in Savage Love: Lesbian dramaDan Savage30One of my very close friends, a lesbian, has been married for a couple of years now. It’s been nothing but drama…
Savage Love12/23/20Dec 231Savage Love12/23/20Savage LoveThis week in Savage Love: Livestream 2Dan Savage33We hosted our second Savage Love Livestream last week and it was a blast. I ran my mouth as fast as I could but…
Savage Love12/16/20Dec 16SaveSavage Love12/16/20Savage LoveThis week in Savage Love: Gay dream believerDan Savage41I’m wondering if you can help me with some dream interpretation. If it helps for context, I’m a single 29-year-old…
Savage Love12/9/20Dec 9SaveSavage Love12/9/20Savage LoveThis week in Savage Love: The casseroleDan Savage99Something is bothering me and I don’t know where else to turn. I’m a bisexual man. I’ve been married to a great guy…
Savage Love12/2/20Dec 21Savage Love12/2/20Savage LoveThis week in Savage Love: Losing outDan Savage65I’m a lesbian and my girlfriend is bi. I’ve read your column and listened to your podcast for a long time, Dan, and…
Savage Love11/25/20Nov 251Savage Love11/25/20Savage LoveThis week in Savage Love: BlockedDan Savage42My boyfriend and I were friends for a couple of years (we’re both 30-year-old gay men), then I stopped traveling…
Savage Love11/18/20Nov 181Savage Love11/18/20Savage LoveThis week in Savage Love: Add it upDan Savage61I’ve always been excited by BDSM but I’ve only minimally explored this side of myself until very recently. I’m a…
Savage Love11/11/20Nov 111Savage Love11/11/20Savage LoveThis week in Savage Love: Four playDan Savage76Why are threesomes much more accepted in the popular imagination than foursomes? I was just googling “finding…
Savage Love11/4/20Nov 4SaveSavage Love11/4/20Savage LoveThis week in Savage Love: Old timesDan Savage75I’m a nearly-80 straight male, with undiminished libido. I have no problem with it, just a persistent curiosity.…
Savage Love10/28/20Oct 281Savage Love10/28/20Savage LoveThis week in Savage Love: Jealous typologiesDan Savage86I’ve been in a relationship with a wonderful guy for the past year. The only problem is that he works with a girl he…
Savage Love10/21/20Oct 212Savage Love10/21/20Savage LoveThis week in Savage Love: Don’t give upDan Savage88Borrowing Gen Z’s love for labelling everything, I’m a 46-year-old homoromantic asexual Canadian faggot. For me that…
Savage Love10/14/20Oct 141Savage Love10/14/20Savage LoveThis week in Savage Love: Direct messagesDan Savage70My husband recently passed away. He was a wonderful person and we had twelve great years together. He was also very,…